Getting Married The Way You Want
Tradition is not in everyone's best favor and when it comes to your wedding you shouldn't have to compromise. It might not be easy to explain to family and friends that you are not planning to get married in a traditional ceremony, the day belongs to you and your fianc. Being able to set ground rules and make your own wedding plans is just natural.
Just because your mother pulls out a strapless wedding gown that she believes will set the aisle on fire doesn't mean you have to actually agree to it. If you would prefer to have a costumed themed wedding, you have that right. Mothers and the soon to be mother-in-laws can be less than understanding and can push their will on your day. Being assertive can help ease this.
Some women choose to go all out, and that's fine. They have a little liposculpture done beforehand and they don't settle for the groom to look any less than his best. If the real thing is not available, some women fine the absolute best in fine costume jewelry for the women of the wedding party as well as mothers. Going all out can be fun and it can fulfill a childhood fantasy for some women.
Other women just aren't there and the only childhood fantasy that they would be portraying is the one a parent has had for them. This day is very special and it should be remembered the way that you want it to be.
Even if you are not so keen on many of the traditions in a typical wedding service you don't have to recreate the whole thing. If you are fine with the ceremony and big white dress but wish to have the wedding held outside of a religious institution you can do that. If other scenery like beaches or mountains hold more mystery in them for you then plan as you want.
Some women scorn the childhood fantasy because in reality, that's exactly what it is. The next day you wake up married and the promise of a happy eternity is going to require work from each of you. You can't just fall into a great marriage and perfect lifestyle, and some women do away with the idea of an illusion in favor of something more concrete for them.
Today's women as well as the women of the last decade have struggled hard to recreate the idea of what constitutes a good wedding. Sometimes the predictability of tradition needs to be broken for all kinds of reasons. When women in the seventies opted to remove the word 'obey' from tradition vow ceremonies it came with resistance. Today, women have more choices because of that as long as the voice is spoken.
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